A person’s gut instinct is usually never wrong. You feel there is something going on, but you can’t tell what exactly. It could be nothing, or it could be that they are cheating on you, gambling your hard-earned money away, or are involved in some criminal activity.
You want to leave and not be caught up in this infidel act, find you and your children with a loss of money or even your home, or put in the line of danger. First, be sure you know exactly what is going on before bringing any accusations to light. You need to do a thorough investigation.
What to Look Out For
Nobody’s perfect and if your spouse is up to something that they shouldn’t, eventually they will become sloppy. There are always going to be clues left behind or signs you can pay attention to. Are you noticing any of the following acts from your spouse?
• Always leaving the room to take phone calls
• A recent need to have alone time
• Massive amounts of bills and receipts to fancy restaurants or clubs
• Huge amount of credit card charges
• Extremely protective about their phone
• Phone call and text logs constantly cleared
• Picks fights with you and storms out of the house
• Cash withdrawals or transfers to other accounts
• Non-sufficient fund charges on your statements
• Credit denial letters
• Sudden interest in high-risk investments
• Starting to arrive to work late, leave early, or miss work all together
This is an incredibly long list, but each could account for cheating, gambling, or criminal partner.
How Your Suspicions Can Hurt Your Relationship
Trying to confront your partner about your suspicions can hurt your relationship. For one, yes, you could be wrong. The trust you once had is now broken on both ends.
The other reason it can greatly hurt your relationship is that your spouse will know you are on to them. They can then change their actions and become more cautious around you. You don’t even need to confront them as your questions alone can be enough for them to take the hint.
Giving away any signs before you know for certain what is going on, will just make it easier for them to say it’s all in your head.
How to Be Certain There is Something Going On
The best thing to do is have proof in your hands of this activity. You are going to get a confession from them, or you are going to have to find out on your own, discreetly. Depending upon the situation, it can be dangerous for you to go snooping on your own.
Using a domestic surveillance agency such as Suncoast PI is the best way to find out about any inappropriate activity your spouse may be engaged. Suncoast PI’s professional team has the latest technology to accurately survey and find out what is going on in your spouse’s life.